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... it's been a long week. I was going to vent earlier tonight, but I'm too much of a zombie at the moment.

Freaking out, So I thought I'd Ramble On

I'm freaking out right now. My hair's been bothering me lately. I haven't felt really "fresh" these past couple of days, because I've been going to sleep late and just working away. I've been feeling short, annoyed, and stressed lately. I've noticed my hair has been somewhat coarse. I've always been paranoid and though my hair seemed to be thinning in the back or maybe the light was hitting it a certain way. I know that the hairline near my front has receded compared to when I was younger (let's say 5 to 10 years ago). Yet, I know that my hair still looks thick or full.

I cut my own hair and at first I thought I would only trim my hair, but the spot I made a mistake on last week was bothering me. I figured I'd shave my whole head shorter. I noticed that the line design I tried putting near the crown/front of my head hasn't grown in and it somewhat appears as if it's not going to.

I have a handheld mirror and medicine cabinet mirrors to view my hair while I use the clipper on my head. If I remember correctly, I last had a buzz cut in December. I don't remember having any bald spots or patches. When I buzzed near the top back area of my head… I noticed a very distinct and visible bold patch. It freaked me out. I'm still freaked out. I don't know what it is. I don't know if I'm going bald or if it's something else. It's near the swirly part of my hair, but not quite. Then I look at the patterns around this bald patch and I keep seeing or conjuring this image of thinning hair. It's freaking me out and I know I'll most likely be balding when I'm older, but… It's such a stupid feeling to have, knowing there are worse things, but I'm so freaked out over this. This bald patch that wasn't there before freaks me out, because it doesn't seem like a gradual or predicted patch. It's like a thumb sized spot surround by full set of hair.

The thoughts I had running (and I still have them running, but controlled)… I thought about turning 30 this year. I thought about where I'm at in my life. Why I'm still not living on my own or if I ever will. Or the fact that I'm not married or have any kids of my own. Then I think about how everyone around me, especially being back home, is either engaged or married. I just had a niece give birth to a kid, a friend's sister give birth, and another childhood friend have a baby. Maybe it's everything that's freaking me out.

I'm really scared to look at that spot on my head. I'm hoping it's from stress or maybe a ringworm. It's just a wakeup call for me, especially since I've been very unhealthy again this week. I've been eating recklessly and not getting any exercise whatsoever. I've been self-trapped in my own room. I know I need to change something. I need to change the way I think, behave, and feel in order to get something or anything going. I need to empty out my running thoughts…

Why is this such a wake up call? I'm sure I've had other things that could be looked at as a wakeup call (SA, being Single, Independence)… But maybe this thumb-sized bald spot represents all of those "things".

"Lawd have mercy on me"

Just Thinking Out Loud...

I just drank a sh*t load of coffee today and I actually feel "high" off of it right now. I hope I don't crash and burn, but I know the feeling all to well. Anyways, this is just me with a bunch of rambling thoughts...

I'm always curious about possible job opportunities back home (or near my hometown). The bigger cities near my hometown are roughly 30 - 45 minutes away (North and South). When I say big cities, they're not exactly Los Angeles or San Francisco type cities. Sometimes I'll find an interesting job that somewhat pertains to my field and I've actually applied to one last year. I never received a response back and I always wonder if they actually look for creative talent. Maybe I should've used my parent's address to show them I was local.

Today, I came across a company that posted a few positions that were related to my line of work. It seemed they listed the actual job under three different titles (HTML Specialist, Graphic Designer, Web Designer) but I figure they want the person to do all. I'm pretty confident or I think I would at least get a response back from the company if I applied.

The salary is a bit lower than what you would get paid in a bigger city, but the cost of living is really low. I started to daydream about this idea. Even though I live in Los Angeles County where there are so many opportunities. However, I tend to let my personality (my shyness, timidness, introverted side, and social anxieties) discourage me. Yet, in a more smaller town setting, I feel as if I do have more control over myself and I would be a bit more assertive then passive.

I think I would be able to live on my own, save up a lot of money. I'd be able to keep doing work with the clients I do web projects for and I could see myself working my way towards "San Francisco" maybe in later years.

That's just a thought or a daydream I've been indulging in. I know it's not everyone's typical daydream. I think the "Normal" person would dream of working in the city. I always find a calmness or peace back home and that's why I think I could handle living on my own if I were to get a job near my hometown.

Who knows. I'm left with... Lower Salary but Lower cost of Living vs Higher Salary Positions but with Higher Cost of Living.

The truth is, I don't have an active social life. I'm not going out every night, so I'm not really enjoying the "city life" as it should be enjoyed. I'm not really pulling in tons of money with the client's I work for, and I'm basically making enough money just so that I could live comfortably working at my apartment.

So, I think if I was given an opportunity to work near my hometown... I think I would take it. It could be a new start for me. Well, not a new start but a change of pace. We'll see what happens.